I ask you about this question because of your knowlege on the subject and having written a book about the genders. Every so often -- and I am not saying that I was necessarily confronted with this question recently, or anticipate it coming up soon, so to speak, but never hurts to be prepared -- men will be faced with this question in the 'cuddle phase' after you know what. And it's always in that almost childlike talk, What are you thinking?
Whatever it is we were really thinking at the moment is most definitely the WRONG answer. Silence is the WRONG answer. Giving it a little thought, maybe after repeating the question to allow for some time to come up with a 'safe' answer is the WRONG answer. Being hung over doesn't permit taking the fifth. And if, lets say, we miraculously come up with the right answer or an acceptable answer, there is a good chance there will be a follow up question, which is probably harder to answer than the initial question. And getting up earlier, showering and going to get the paper is considered insensitive.
Say you were thinking about the Relationship. Of course then you will have to explain WHAT you were thinking about the Relationship. The answer is, you were thinking, in a very general way, just how satisfied you feel to be in this Relationship. These feelings are SO general that you have no further words to describe them.
WHATEVER you do, when asked what you are thinking in these moments, do NOT mention the NCAA tournament.